Your Personal Rules for Black Tie

Received an invitation with a 'black tie dress code'? No need to worry. This guide provides a list of essential items you must wear to achieve a sophisticated black tie look effortlessly. From tuxedo shoes to silk bow ties, we've covered every detail you need to master the black tie dress code. Whether you're looking for silk tuxedo socks, an elegant cummerbund, or luxurious suspenders, Serà Fine Silk offers everything you need for a refined black tie ensemble. With these essentials, you'll achieve a polished look and be ready to impress at any black tie event.

1. Shoes: Only Oxfords Will Do

For a black tie event, Oxford shoes are your go-to choice. Opt for shiny patent leather or glossy calf leather to achieve an unmistakable shine. Serà Fine Silk also offers a range of accessories to complement your look perfectly. Avoid loafers, monks, or any other style—black tie calls for classic elegance.

2. Socks: Black and Sophisticated

Socks should be black, long (reaching mid-calf), and preferably made of silk. Opt for Serà Fine Silk tuxedo silk socks to elevate your look with an extra touch of luxury. Avoid bold patterns or ankle-length socks—opt for classic Italian socks to maintain timeless sophistication.

3. Trousers: Don’t Forget the Satin Stripes

Black tie trousers should feature silk or satin side stripes running along the legs. These are a defining detail that separates black tie from a regular suit.

4. Tuxedo Cummerbund: A Must-Have Accessory

  6. Shirt: Formal and Crisp

Your dress shirt must have cufflinks and ideally a front bib. For true black tie, opt for a shirt with a shirt-front and wingtip collar or a wide turndown collar. In a pinch, a classic white shirt with cufflinks will work, but for the perfect black tie look, the shirt-front style is more in line with tradition.

7. Tuxedo Bow Tie: Silk Is Essential

For a black tie event, a classic black silk bow tie in satin, grosgrain, or velvet is essential for a polished look. A velvet bow tie, such as a velvet green bow tie, can add a touch of flair, provided it complements your attire without being too extravagant—aim for classic sophistication. You can also explore other options like a red bow tie—ideal for a Christmas look or New Year's Eve—or a blue bow tie if you're wearing a midnight blue tuxedo. Whether you prefer a pre-tied bow tie for convenience or a self-tie bow tie for a classic touch, both options are available to suit your style. Remember to match your bow tie with tuxedo suspenders for a cohesive ensemble. 

8. Lapels: Go Silk

The lapels of your dinner jacket should be made of silk. You have two choices: peak or shawl lapels—both are traditional options for black tie. Avoid notch lapels, which are more appropriate for standard suits. Ideally, the silk facing on the lapels should match the braiding on your trousers. For a cohesive black tie look, use the same type of silk—whether satin, grosgrain, or velvet—for the lapels, trousers' ribbon, bow tie, tuxedo suspenders, and cummerbund—matching these elements with the same type of silk, such as satin, grosgrain, or velvet, creates a cohesive black tie look that embodies timeless elegance. This attention to detail ensures a seamless and sophisticated appearance, perfect for any formal event.

9. Tuxedo Jacket: Velvet for a Vintage Vibe

For those looking to make a bold statement, a velvet dinner jacket can create a stunning, vintage-inspired look for a black tie event. Velvet dinner jackets are perfect for adding texture and luxury to your black tie outfit. Avoid pairing it with velvet trousers to prevent an overly textured appearance. Ideally, the dinner jacket should have a closed back without vents for added elegance, though side vents are also acceptable. Both single-breasted and double-breasted dinner jacket styles work well, ensuring a tailored fit that complements your body shape. Remember to fasten only the top button—unbuttoning it when seated for both comfort and impeccable black tie etiquette. 

 

10. Silk Pocket Square: A Final Flourish

A white silk pocket square is the traditional choice for a black tie event, offering timeless elegance. For a subtle personal touch, consider one with colorful edges. Our Modern Love collection of tuxedo pocket squares is specifically designed for black tie events, adding a contemporary flair to your formalwear. We also offer a wide range of white silk pocket squares with unique details, as well as the Lucky Charm Collection for those who desire a touch of fortune. Feeling bold? Add a splash of color with one of our colored pocket squares—ideal for festive occasions like Christmas or New Year's Eve. All pocket squares are crafted in Italy using Como silk, ensuring pure luxury and the highest quality finish. A pocket square can't be missed because it adds a touch of personality and completes your black tie look with flair. 

Above: Black Pre-Tied Silk Butterfly Bow Tie, Ivory White Silk Pocket Square

11. Watch: Keep It Classic

For your watch, choose one with a black leather strap and a simple white or dark dial. It should complement your cufflinks without drawing undue attention.

12. Cufflinks: Keep It Understated

Cufflinks should ideally be made of white or yellow gold. If you’re feeling bold, you can try models with gems—just avoid colored stones for this formal occasion.

13. Grooming: Clean and Sharp

A clean-shaven face is the safest bet for black tie, but if you can pull off a well-groomed beard like Jared Leto, it can work—just keep it tidy and well maintained.